MOTHER....The Chief Executive Officer
Mother....The sweetest name in the world. The unforgettable feeling in the life of everyone..
The inevitable relation, the most reliable person in the life is mother. The child at the earliest stage knows nothing except crying when it feels some discomfort and smiling when it is happy. That is the stage mother starts the child teaching something knowingly or unknowingly. The only two feelings the child knows multiply gradually into number of emotions like anger,jealousy,love, hatred etc..Shaping of these emotions is in accordance to the reaction of mainly mother and other surrounding near and dear, to the actions of the child.As the mother is closely attached to the child always, all such actions and reactions are closely watched / guided and monitored mainly by mother. Thus, these actions and related reactions finally frame the character of the child. His feelings and emotions take the shape of thoughts gradually; and from there these thoughts take the shape of words; and these words shape into actions and these actions take the shape of habits of the child. And these habits take the shape of his character and thus the same character decides the destiny of that individuals life finally. Thus the total base of someones life is mainly mother.Of course,the influence of zeans and surroundings are also said to be main factors of once character.But how he responds to the surroundings is mainly based on the basic habits laid by mother. And the ratio of the influence of zeans can be decreased, in case of necessity, by increasing the influence of surrounds and brought up. The role of father and other close members of the family in it cannot be denied totally, but no doubt in saying that all such influences are supplementary and secondary. That is the Reason Why mother is given the place of Ist guru. and it is only after her the role of father and guru comes saying...Maatrudevo Bhava, Pitrudevo Bhava and Aacharyadevo Bhava. If a child grows into great and good citizen, the credit goes mainly to mother. In other case, even the blame comes to her first and so the people generally blame him on her name. Such is the responsibility of a mother.Besides keeping up this, she has to serve all the members of the family playing different roles like husband, daughter-in-law,sister-in-law etc. that too in this male dominant society. In any role if she fails to satisfy the concerned to their expectations, no doubt, she will be disturbed accordingly. Thus she has to play all these roles very efficiently, tactfully and patiently.She influences all the members of the family at large. Without her proper service and affection, husband cannot function his duty up to the mark. Her breeze of affection makes him face any kind of task very easily. Now-a-days many of the mothers are working women. For them job is an additional duty.It does not exempt them from any kind of duty or responsibility. And in case woman is not working,if someone asks what your mother is doing, it is mostly replied that no..she doesn't do any thing.In polished words she is termed "Housewife".But let us review the work done by her, the responsibility she takes up, the patience she applies, the coordination she made with all the members of the family and the tactics she shows without hurting any member of the family, physical work and time management.....All this is noting less than the work of a big-boss in a corporate office. Then instead of simply terming her housewife, why cannot she be titled.. MOTHER...The C.E.O of the Family.
Mother....The sweetest name in the world. The unforgettable feeling in the life of everyone..
The inevitable relation, the most reliable person in the life is mother. The child at the earliest stage knows nothing except crying when it feels some discomfort and smiling when it is happy. That is the stage mother starts the child teaching something knowingly or unknowingly. The only two feelings the child knows multiply gradually into number of emotions like anger,jealousy,love, hatred etc..Shaping of these emotions is in accordance to the reaction of mainly mother and other surrounding near and dear, to the actions of the child.As the mother is closely attached to the child always, all such actions and reactions are closely watched / guided and monitored mainly by mother. Thus, these actions and related reactions finally frame the character of the child. His feelings and emotions take the shape of thoughts gradually; and from there these thoughts take the shape of words; and these words shape into actions and these actions take the shape of habits of the child. And these habits take the shape of his character and thus the same character decides the destiny of that individuals life finally. Thus the total base of someones life is mainly mother.Of course,the influence of zeans and surroundings are also said to be main factors of once character.But how he responds to the surroundings is mainly based on the basic habits laid by mother. And the ratio of the influence of zeans can be decreased, in case of necessity, by increasing the influence of surrounds and brought up. The role of father and other close members of the family in it cannot be denied totally, but no doubt in saying that all such influences are supplementary and secondary. That is the Reason Why mother is given the place of Ist guru. and it is only after her the role of father and guru comes saying...Maatrudevo Bhava, Pitrudevo Bhava and Aacharyadevo Bhava. If a child grows into great and good citizen, the credit goes mainly to mother. In other case, even the blame comes to her first and so the people generally blame him on her name. Such is the responsibility of a mother.Besides keeping up this, she has to serve all the members of the family playing different roles like husband, daughter-in-law,sister-in-law etc. that too in this male dominant society. In any role if she fails to satisfy the concerned to their expectations, no doubt, she will be disturbed accordingly. Thus she has to play all these roles very efficiently, tactfully and patiently.She influences all the members of the family at large. Without her proper service and affection, husband cannot function his duty up to the mark. Her breeze of affection makes him face any kind of task very easily. Now-a-days many of the mothers are working women. For them job is an additional duty.It does not exempt them from any kind of duty or responsibility. And in case woman is not working,if someone asks what your mother is doing, it is mostly replied that no..she doesn't do any thing.In polished words she is termed "Housewife".But let us review the work done by her, the responsibility she takes up, the patience she applies, the coordination she made with all the members of the family and the tactics she shows without hurting any member of the family, physical work and time management.....All this is noting less than the work of a big-boss in a corporate office. Then instead of simply terming her housewife, why cannot she be titled.. MOTHER...The C.E.O of the Family.
dad it was very nice,both of your articles are advicing me to be care ful,ya it is correct the parents must be more responsble for all the attitudes of the child and that too mother,
ReplyDeleteOk dad iam trying my kid to moulde as a good,and responsible citizen,
but one thing i think is that i cant keep her away from societ for much time,but now a days i observed is even hasini is learing in one glance from neighbours..........little bit makinging me tensed(since it can be good or bad)
ok any how continue the same thing dad very good
Very nice article Daddy...
ReplyDeleteYes, Mother plays a very import role in moulding the child. She has to balance her personal and professional lives.
She can take care of her children,husband and sacrifice anything for them, but in return she expects only love and nothing else, which we as children/husband should never fail to give.
Good post and you have depicted well w.r.t mother.Keep posting such nice articles.
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